Sunday, March 14, 2010

omg...
u're like my own kind of drug...
u made me addicted to your presence...
i love you schatje!

Friday, March 12, 2010

27 things we girls want guys to know

1. yes, most of us like dressing up and looking good, putting eyeliners and lipgloss and other shits, but it's not like we do it to attract YOU. sorry we don't put too much effort to get the guys we want. it's your job. we dress up because we just love doing it, as much as dressing up our dolls when we were kids

2. i totally agree with Cassey. we underestimate guys who watch porn. its really immature. dude it's either you get someone real to sleep with instead of fantasizing, or just do nothing at all. kok susah?

3. "we just wanna be loved. we know it sounds pretty cliche but yeah thats pretty much all we want. being understood is not our first priority. if you love us that much you wont cheat, you will listen, and you'll definitely get our love and attention back." -Diane Yuri

4. "we ADORE guys who love their moms. we predict the way you treat your future wife by the way you treat your mom. no, we definitely dont want a mama's boy; we just want someone who actually loves & appreciates his mom from the bottom of his heart."-Diane Yuri

5. "we are charmed by boys who know how to cry. nope, not crybabies or over-sensitive boys. guys who actually know how to express their deepest emotions in the right time in the right way are just..hard to find. yes you all could act all superman-ish toward us sometimes, but yknow, we'd love to see the sensitive side of you. we dont consider it a weakness"

6. We don't like being pushed to do something. Anything. It doesn't have to be something that we hate. We just don't like being pushed. Period. The more you push us, the more we wouldn't do it for you.

7. "Don't ask us for sex on our first week. And don't keep asking us over and over and over again like a hornbag. It's a major turn-off" -Natasha Cinta Vinski

8. Constantly talking about ME ME ME ME ME doesn't impress us much. Well it doesn't mean we are not interested in getting to know you, it's just that we don't really fancy guys who are more interested on himself instead of interested on us. It just shows that you're more of a self-absorbed guy. Once in a while is fine, just not constantly.

9. Hey, don't expect us to ask for your number or making the first move. The only thing we do is sit, and you do the rest. That's how it works. Don't let your girl make the first move.

10. We like sweet little surprises. It doesn't always mean that we're such materialistic spoiled brat. And it doesn't have to be anything that costs a lot. We like guys who make us feel special and love. You can always hug us from the back unexpectedly, and you can try cooking for us. Even if it's turns out to taste so bad, we still think it's sweet. And it wouldn't turn us off.

11. "Being teased can be funny at times (well depends on what you're making fun of, and depends on what our mood is), but please, don't repeat it OVER and OVER and OVER again. not only it is rude, it is SO BLOODY ANNOYING." -Natasha Cinta Vinski

12. For God sake checking out of other girls do not make us feel special. We want to be the only girl you see, okay? Or at least don't talk about it in front of us, it's inappropriate. Well this only work if you're trying to attract us.

13. We think it's sweet if you remember small details about us, ( e.g: like how we always touch our hair when we're nervous, or how we always clench our fingers when we're holding our bladder, or how we always order another glass with ice cubes when eating out) it's really sweet. It shows us that you care about us.

14. We hate guys who are trying to look cool. Like showing-off his physical abilities, or how he runs 500 miles a day to keep fit, or pretend to like bands that are in trend or bands that sound cool while he doesn't really like them, or how he's trying to drop hints that he is a player for the sake of looking cool. We hate it. Just act normal for the love of God. And no dropping hints to show-off please. We notice. We're totally fine if you like mushy mellow music, or if you are not a jerk, we love it.

15. DO NOT EVER EVER EVER COMPARE US TO OTHER GIRLS. If you find it that we're just at least the same as other girls, go find a girl that is totally the opposite of us then. We want you to be interested in us because you can see something different in us than the other girls. We don't like being played, nor we like being just another girl.

16. When you get busted by us being douchebags with your friends like one of your friend talked about when he ditched his date for a video-game, do NOT give us an excuse that "It is just a guy thing". it doesn't make you less of a jerk. As you may have known, we fucking hate jerks. It doesn't make you look any cooler.

17. Acting cute and nice to get girls to all girls you know is pathetic. And we consider that as an act of desperation. No it doesn't make us feel sorry. We laugh about it with our girls. You just don't know.

18. Your money do not attract girls who are not shallow. Well it's a different story if you're trying to attract shallow, stupid, incompetent, cheap girls.

19. Not all of us girls like sex. And when we say that we're not interested, we're not denying.

20. Pointing out the good things you've done for us when we're fighting is pathetic. It shows us that you weren't genuine when you did it, and the next time you're going to do it we're not going to let you do so.

21. A little phonecall from a guy we really like can make our most terrible day wonderful :) Vice versa if we think that the guy is a creep.

22. Fashion is for women. It's not for guys. Or at least straight guys. Don't wear complicated clothes, especially if it's even more complicated than our clothes. It doesn't mean you are free to look shitty and still having us interested. Just keep it simple and decent.

23. Guys, stay away from tucking in your t-shirt to your pants, cheap shoes, turtlenecks, and cargo-pants, jogging shoes, thin-framed glasses, and overly baggy or tight jeans and tops. And wearing pink makes you look gay. Hands down.

24. Guys with good manners and great sense of humor never fail to impress us.

25. We find it kind of retarded when you are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO obsessed with videogames as if it is your hot sexi wife.

26. "STOP TELLING YOUR GIRL TO LOOK HOT. We're supposed to be beautiful in your eyes no matter how crappy we look if you really accept us for what we are" -Su Lyn Ng

27. You don't deserve us at our best if you can't handle us at our worst times.

re-post from Dominica Levina @facebook notes

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

i love you!!!! :)

i just read a story about a guy who sacrifices his life for the girl he loves..
he asks the girl to say that she loves him,
he asks the girl to hug him for one last time,
then he asks the girl to wear his helmet cuz he knows that his motorcycle brake is broken..
and that makes me realize,
how we should say how we love someone before it's all too late..
not only saying how we love someone though,
but also do all the things we want to do for someone..
cuz we don't know when will HE "call" us and tell us that our life in this world is over..

that's why,
through this post i want to say that i love you guys so much..
my family,my friends,my (ex)boyfriend..

I LOVE YOU MOM, DAD, SIS, GRANNY, AGAI, SISCA, FANI, ANGGIE, LELE (both leles), NADYA, WINNIE, TIFFANY, TOGE, ICHA, KIKI, FELIX, PRAM, DEBBY, NA-RAE, NATASHA, BIGEL, BAGAS, MIMI, DEA, NONIE, ABENK, VERO, SHERLYN, ICHA, AND ALL OF YOU MY FRIENDS! smoochh!!!!! :*
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BENBIKO GIGIR!!!!!
CIEEEE YANG KEPALA DUAAA!!!!!!! :P
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!!! :D

Monday, March 8, 2010

especially for you... :)

this is a new story about me and him..
but i don't know why it feels like it has happened for a long time..
i feel like we have travel this road of love for a long time..
i feel different this time..
i don't have to pretend to be someone else when i'm with him..
i can just be myself all the time..
so weird, but i love it..

he says he can't say "i love you" that easily..
but he says it lots of time when he's with me..
and i know that he means it..

he says he rarely loves a girl so much in such a short period of time..
but he says that he does love me so much since the day we start dating..
and i can feel it since then til now..

and now i just wanna say to you that
you are so different..
you're one in a million..
you mean a lot for me..
even though we haven't meet the problems in our relationship,
but i don't know how and why,
i feel like i'm ready for those problems..
cause i know that when those problems come, i will still have you right by my side..
i will still have you loving me..

and don't you worry..
i will also be here for you..
i will always be here when you need me..
i will be here when you're happy or sad..
i promise you that i will do anything that i can do for you...
doesn't matter whatever it costs me..
i will be here for you...

so don't you ever think about bad things about us..
don't you ever think that you don't worth me..
cause for me you are perfect..
even though i know that nobody's perfect,
but at least you're real close to perfect..
that makes me think that you are perfect for me...
so don't you ever think that you don't worth me..
cause sometimes i'm the one who can't believe that i can have you by my side..

i might not be that kind..
i might not be that pretty..
i might not be that perfect..
but i love you that much..

i love you Ratama Magyar Hutagalung..
now and i hope forever... :)

women's strengths :)

a woman has strengths that amaze men..
she can handle troubles and carry heavy burdens..
she holds happiness,love and opinions..
she smiles when she feels like screaming..
she sings when she feels like crying..
cries when she's happy and laughs when she's afraid..
her love is unconditional!
there's only one thing wrong with her,
she sometimes forgets what she is worth...

re-post from nadya nathan.

Friday, March 5, 2010

a letter from mein schatje,Agai

Really
I love you the way you are
Nobody's perfect
Let the past be the past
Let us begin a new life
And write a book, titled "our life and love"
or... "Agai and Shilla story" Hahahaha.
(ok..behave..)
Do not forget the past
But take that for our experience
I'll be a better man
And I hope you'll be a better woman for your family, me, and yourself
Especially GOD
There's nothing "impossible" for those who want to change
But you have to do some "sacrifice" if you want to change
it's hard isn't it?hehehehe.

Hmm...
Maybe it's too soon for us to begin this relationship
But I hope it'll last till death tear us apart
(serem yah..)
God Bless Our Relationship
I love you..

Monday, March 1, 2010

simple description about me and him..

new empty page the best way to describe the beginning of all this...
a sweet sentence was written as the first sentence in that page..
and it starts the story of a guy and a girl..
a simple,lovely,kind-hearted guy to be exact..
and a normal 16-year-old girl as his mate..

the pages before might be memorable for the girl,
but it doesn't mean that the new page is dull for her..
the new page is even more interesting and lovable for her..
it's filled with lots of fun,laughs,smiles,and of course love..
and all of them are caused by that simple guy..

the guy says lots of lovely things for her..
the guy does lots of great things for her..
even those are just so simple,but she loves it so much..
it's because he done that with his whole heart..
and it means a lot for her..

that page is actually about myself and Agai..
the simple,spontaneous,lovely,kind-hearted guys who made me fall..
fall so deeply in love with him to be exact..

and dear,those things are your best qualities..
and i don't want you to lose your confidence in yourself...
cuz i know that you're the best for me..
the best guy i can get.. :)

ik hou van jou.. :)