Friday, March 12, 2010

27 things we girls want guys to know

1. yes, most of us like dressing up and looking good, putting eyeliners and lipgloss and other shits, but it's not like we do it to attract YOU. sorry we don't put too much effort to get the guys we want. it's your job. we dress up because we just love doing it, as much as dressing up our dolls when we were kids

2. i totally agree with Cassey. we underestimate guys who watch porn. its really immature. dude it's either you get someone real to sleep with instead of fantasizing, or just do nothing at all. kok susah?

3. "we just wanna be loved. we know it sounds pretty cliche but yeah thats pretty much all we want. being understood is not our first priority. if you love us that much you wont cheat, you will listen, and you'll definitely get our love and attention back." -Diane Yuri

4. "we ADORE guys who love their moms. we predict the way you treat your future wife by the way you treat your mom. no, we definitely dont want a mama's boy; we just want someone who actually loves & appreciates his mom from the bottom of his heart."-Diane Yuri

5. "we are charmed by boys who know how to cry. nope, not crybabies or over-sensitive boys. guys who actually know how to express their deepest emotions in the right time in the right way are just..hard to find. yes you all could act all superman-ish toward us sometimes, but yknow, we'd love to see the sensitive side of you. we dont consider it a weakness"

6. We don't like being pushed to do something. Anything. It doesn't have to be something that we hate. We just don't like being pushed. Period. The more you push us, the more we wouldn't do it for you.

7. "Don't ask us for sex on our first week. And don't keep asking us over and over and over again like a hornbag. It's a major turn-off" -Natasha Cinta Vinski

8. Constantly talking about ME ME ME ME ME doesn't impress us much. Well it doesn't mean we are not interested in getting to know you, it's just that we don't really fancy guys who are more interested on himself instead of interested on us. It just shows that you're more of a self-absorbed guy. Once in a while is fine, just not constantly.

9. Hey, don't expect us to ask for your number or making the first move. The only thing we do is sit, and you do the rest. That's how it works. Don't let your girl make the first move.

10. We like sweet little surprises. It doesn't always mean that we're such materialistic spoiled brat. And it doesn't have to be anything that costs a lot. We like guys who make us feel special and love. You can always hug us from the back unexpectedly, and you can try cooking for us. Even if it's turns out to taste so bad, we still think it's sweet. And it wouldn't turn us off.

11. "Being teased can be funny at times (well depends on what you're making fun of, and depends on what our mood is), but please, don't repeat it OVER and OVER and OVER again. not only it is rude, it is SO BLOODY ANNOYING." -Natasha Cinta Vinski

12. For God sake checking out of other girls do not make us feel special. We want to be the only girl you see, okay? Or at least don't talk about it in front of us, it's inappropriate. Well this only work if you're trying to attract us.

13. We think it's sweet if you remember small details about us, ( e.g: like how we always touch our hair when we're nervous, or how we always clench our fingers when we're holding our bladder, or how we always order another glass with ice cubes when eating out) it's really sweet. It shows us that you care about us.

14. We hate guys who are trying to look cool. Like showing-off his physical abilities, or how he runs 500 miles a day to keep fit, or pretend to like bands that are in trend or bands that sound cool while he doesn't really like them, or how he's trying to drop hints that he is a player for the sake of looking cool. We hate it. Just act normal for the love of God. And no dropping hints to show-off please. We notice. We're totally fine if you like mushy mellow music, or if you are not a jerk, we love it.

15. DO NOT EVER EVER EVER COMPARE US TO OTHER GIRLS. If you find it that we're just at least the same as other girls, go find a girl that is totally the opposite of us then. We want you to be interested in us because you can see something different in us than the other girls. We don't like being played, nor we like being just another girl.

16. When you get busted by us being douchebags with your friends like one of your friend talked about when he ditched his date for a video-game, do NOT give us an excuse that "It is just a guy thing". it doesn't make you less of a jerk. As you may have known, we fucking hate jerks. It doesn't make you look any cooler.

17. Acting cute and nice to get girls to all girls you know is pathetic. And we consider that as an act of desperation. No it doesn't make us feel sorry. We laugh about it with our girls. You just don't know.

18. Your money do not attract girls who are not shallow. Well it's a different story if you're trying to attract shallow, stupid, incompetent, cheap girls.

19. Not all of us girls like sex. And when we say that we're not interested, we're not denying.

20. Pointing out the good things you've done for us when we're fighting is pathetic. It shows us that you weren't genuine when you did it, and the next time you're going to do it we're not going to let you do so.

21. A little phonecall from a guy we really like can make our most terrible day wonderful :) Vice versa if we think that the guy is a creep.

22. Fashion is for women. It's not for guys. Or at least straight guys. Don't wear complicated clothes, especially if it's even more complicated than our clothes. It doesn't mean you are free to look shitty and still having us interested. Just keep it simple and decent.

23. Guys, stay away from tucking in your t-shirt to your pants, cheap shoes, turtlenecks, and cargo-pants, jogging shoes, thin-framed glasses, and overly baggy or tight jeans and tops. And wearing pink makes you look gay. Hands down.

24. Guys with good manners and great sense of humor never fail to impress us.

25. We find it kind of retarded when you are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO obsessed with videogames as if it is your hot sexi wife.

26. "STOP TELLING YOUR GIRL TO LOOK HOT. We're supposed to be beautiful in your eyes no matter how crappy we look if you really accept us for what we are" -Su Lyn Ng

27. You don't deserve us at our best if you can't handle us at our worst times.

re-post from Dominica Levina @facebook notes

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